So, you caught her cheating on you in Stoke-on-Trent? Oh, boy… there’s really nothing that I can say to you to help fix the pain you feel right now. As men, we pride ourselves knowing that our women are entirely ours, and that no other man has a valid claim to what is ours. However, sometimes,w e run into a woman who has the potential to cheat on us, and we are victimized by their infidelity. Discovering that your girlfriend has been having an affair can be a truly hard pill to swallow. Of course, I know that from personal experience The woman I’m with now is actually my wife, and we’ve been together for a long time. We’re extremely happy, so I think that we’ll remain together for the rest of our lives. However, it’s important to note that she once had a period in her life where she cheated on me with several men. She was actually so cunning about the whole ordeal that I did not have a single clue as it was happening. She actually confessed to me herself, and I probably would not have known what was going on if she hadn’t done that. Apparently, something came over her one summer, and she felt the impulse to sleep with as many men as she could. She did not understand it herself, and I didn’t, either. My wife has always been a shy, quiet, kind woman, and she never appeared to have that tendency. Women are complex creatures, and you never really know what’s going through their minds. Today, I know that that summer long ago was the only time that my wife ever cheated on me, and she’ll never do something like that again. I have learned to find forgiveness for her in my heart. It wasn’t easy for me, and it won’t be easy for you, either. However, if you stick to it long enough, you’ll put this whole ordeal far behind you, and you’ll find a way to love her again.
Cheating forgiveness is not as simple as going to the market and buying a band-aid — it’s a long and winding road that you can fall out of at any moment unless you show the proper vigilance. That is to say, if you don’t keep your eye on the end goal of forgiveness, you’ll lose sight of your intention, and it’ll be hard to get back on the path again.
One of the hardest thing to get past is being the victim of an affair. Like I said, nothing hurts more than being cheated on by the woman you love. Just be strong, stick to your guns, and you’ll find that you can forgive her for what she did eventually.
The path to forgiveness comes with great personal risk, mostly in the form of the time you can potentially waste by trying to forgive a person who doesn’t deserve it. Ask yourself how much you love your woman, and if she deserves your forgiveness. If the answer is yes, then you already know what you have to do.
No one really knows how long it takes to forgive cheating. Suffice it to say that it may take a while. Be ready for all the demands that this task might come with, and ask your partner to help you through it as well. Eventually, you’ll both get there.